VOTE YES on Referendum 71 in WA

Pretty funny reflection by Stephen Colbert: http://www.colbertnation.com/the-colbert-report-videos/252735/october-26-2009/the-word---don-t-ask-don-t-tell

New Day, New Hair

Change is in the air...and the hair...haven't had it short since moving to Idaho. Gotta let go sometime!

A great ride!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTvJdpkdLiw

Nice work, Matt!

Active Kidlets

Who knew 1 & 3 would be so active??? Here are some recent shots of kids in motion.

Funny about Living this Life

Well-wriiten fun about our choices in the lifetime... http://happydays.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/09/17/the-referendum/?ref=global-home

Here is my favorite part for those who need a summary:

Most of my married friends now have children, the rewards of which appear to be exclusively intangible and, like the mysteries of some gnostic sect, incommunicable to outsiders. In fact it seems from the outside as if these people have joined a dubious cult: they claim to be much happier and more fulfilled than ever before, even though they live in conditions of appalling filth and degradation, deprived of the most basic freedoms and dignity, and owe unquestioning obedience to a capricious and demented master.

I have never even idly thought for a single passing second that it might make my life nicer to have a small, rude, incontinent person follow me around screaming and making me buy them stuff for the rest of my life. [Note to friends with children: I am referring to other people’s children, not to yours.] But there are also moments when some part of me wonders whether I am not only missing the biological boat but something I cannot even begin to imagine — an entire dimension of human experience undetectable to my senses, like a flatlander scoffing at the theoretical concept of sky.

Friendship Abounds

A simply glorious reunion of friends out in Mazama this past weekend -- delights aplenty on the edible and companionship fronts. Our dear friend Lara took these amazing photos of the kids; what an artist!

Racing for a Cure

Fun event in CDA -- our small way to show our support for the very dedicated efforts of many in the fight against breast cancer. H & H were troopers, riding along, taking it all in!

Challenging Times; Staying Clear

There has been a lot of change going on at work for both me and Shannon -- mostly at the leadership level. While we are both still gainfully employed, the distraction and disruption of changes has just made it all the clearer to focus on the very simple, important aspects of life -- home, family, friends, the joys of children. We are everso blessed each day and so very grateful for the abundance which surrounds us.

At this time in the Jewish calendar when reflection and pause take center stage, I am awed by the power of kids to transform the heart. The delight that I experience watching Henry come up from the ground smiling ear to ear having just flown over his handle bars on his bike...the spark that ignites within me when Hope begins to giggle uncontrollably, now even before I have started to tickle her inner thigh...the amazement I experience as Hope signs a new word or in Henry's precocious, "Actually, Momma Diana, I am wondering if perhaps we should have pasta tonight for dinner"...the calm which overtakes me as I hold their pure and undistilled energy in my arms...such blessings.

At this time of atonement, as I take stock of the commitments I have made and those I have broken, I recommit my energy and spirit to my family -- to nurture and cultivate deeper connection, a refined presence, full intention. And in doing so, I ask for guidance from my best new teachers, Henry & Hope, to keep me on the path so that together we continue to flourish.

Support Equality -- Approve WA Ballot Measure 71

While we here in Idaho are no where near equal rights for domestic partners, my friend Jill has articulated the need for action in WA State. To help, here is a great posting for all to read: http://jillbertini.livejournal.com/708887.html

End of Summer Fun

Annual family photo -- kids are growing!!!

Hen and Shannon just waking up in the yurt

Di and kids at Iceberg Point State Park picnicking

A little bit of yurt heaven

Here are some photos from our dear friend Lara when she and Melissa came to see us on Lopez -- she has an eye for the good things in life! http://www.kodakgallery.com/ShareLanding.action?c=to8bpzy.4ceezfdy&x=0&y=rof10o&localeid=en_US&cm_mmc=site_email-_-site_share-_-core-_-view_photos_button

A Farewell to Daycare

Henry's first day of pre-school and Momma is a bit teary as her little one is growing up...alas, this will be a wonderful transition for Henry. Here is a farewell to his previous daycare: http://www.mirandaripley.com/2009/09/07/day-care-diaries-part-fifteen/

We are back from a week of vacation -- more on this to come. Suffice to say, we are all grateful to come home to such a lovely space, yet also longing still for the fun and friends of the past few days!

an angry day...transforming

i had/am having an angry day today. admittedly, i did not get much sleep last night and what i did get was nyquil induced due to a nagging chest cold... but i feel unable to shake it and the events of the day have not helped. they are back to cutting our trees down -- despite rumors that our petition worked, the county is back at their hack job cutting our beautiful stands of aspens and firs, just in advance of their prime come fall when the colors rock my world! it is not just that they are cutting innocent and lovely trees -- it is that they are doing it terribly, leaving scarred remains and closing the road at the most inconvenient hours without any warning to the residents. i was so angry at them this morning that i took "shame" photos (see above). I sent them on to the head of roads and bridges for consideration.

at work today i encountered equally frustrating examples of people not being accountable and making excuses. this irks me more than anything. i mean, human beings are flawed and make big mistakes...but the greatest human travesty is the inability to take ownership of this and be responsible for one's own stupidity. i mean, come on! uurrrgggg.

so now I am off to home -- the kids will be sad because our friends anne and shelli have left -- they came for a too-short, but wonderful visit during which time we went on a great hike high into the cabinet mountain wilderness. henry hiked 3 of the 6 miles!!!! it was incredible -- and the huckleberries were to die for! so, yeah, not all is bad in these here parts. even just thinking about yesterday's adventure (on shannon and my first "married" anniversary) already has me a bit brighter...

24 Feet Rocked!

Amazing feat (pun intended) by Team 24 Feet coming in 44th out of 75 teams! 185 miles in 28 hours, 12 minutes. What a ride it was!

Sunday Musings

Sunday morning and I find myself alone in the house – it is just 8:30am and there is an unfamiliar quiet here. Shannon has taken the kids to Priest Lake to play with Poppa Buddy and Bonnie as I prepare for a late morning tai chi class and then time to myself. Such a gift this moment…I almost wasted it as I often do by busying myself in the service of others – walking the dog, cleaning the house, doing the laundry, watering the plants – but instead I take this moment to settle into words and coffee and the morning sun on the trees outside the window.

The pace of late has been just over my comfort zone, with the added complexities of a trip to Ohio for the family reunion, daycare closures, a bout of stomach flu for Henry, Hope’s new molars erupting and Shannon and I completing 198 mile relay from Spokane to Sandpoint. Where once our normal activeness had me dreary, but willing, these last few weeks have taken a toll. I feel psychically worn, which when paired with simple physical exhaustion, leaves little left. I am not a fan of complainers, so I am trying to keep this “oh woe is me” story tightly held, but it is present and influencing my interactions with life…so better to own it and then strategize around it. Today will offer me needed time for recovery – a chance to breathe a little deeper and remind myself where balance can live within this body.

I had an interesting set of existential moments during our relay race. My second leg began just after 11pm and was a 5.5 mile run along a set of country back roads on the Idaho side. As I started, the dark night sky was filled with stars and I delighted in the freedom of adventuring out into the unknown at a time when I would normally be fast asleep. At 2 miles, our van had pulled over and as I passed, they all gave me an encouraging, “You got it!” and off they drove onto the next exchange. As I watched the red taillights disappear into the distance, a disquieting feeling set in. I was alone. There were no other runners near me and a moist fog had settled into area. I had a small flashlight to guide my steps, but all I could see was the ground directly in front of me – all around was dark and obscured. Coyotes howled in the distance and dogs barked as they sensed my movement passing the end of the long driveways that led to their homes. My mind began its machinations. “Who was lurking in the trees?” “What if a dog came after me?” “Does anyone know where I am?”

I alternated between a visceral panic and a logical talking down that I had simply been watching too much CSI of late. I focused on the run itself, getting one foot in front of the other, avoiding the washboard potholes and mud puddles I was sure would cause an ankle sprain. Still, my mind raced. What of this feeling of being so alone? What of its vulnerability? What was within me that could take me the next 3.5 miles in such darkness and solitude? I drew power from within and continued on.

Finally, I arrived at the Silverwood Theme Park to meet up with the other 11 members of the team awaiting the thrill of riding The Tremors rollercoaster. It was midnight, my body and mind both exhausted, and I was escorted quickly into line so that we could board the coaster. I had been dreading this ride since we registered for the relay but had convinced myself that as a team member, it was an opportunity to put the team first and go for it. As we proceeded up the ramp, my stomach tightened and I thought I might vomit. Shannon was eager and excitable like a kid. Her encouraging “this will be great” made me both confident that all would be fine and furious at her lack of understanding of what the past 45 minutes in the woods had extolled from me. Soon I was ushered into the seat, my belt checked, safety bar lowered. There was no getting out now.

The Tremors is an old wooden rollercoaster that uses speed, darkness and right-angled turns to terrify you in place of the loop-de-loops and free-fall of the newer models. Without warning, it propels you at speeds greater than 65 mph down, around, into tunnels, up, right, left, down, up, down, up, down…finally settling you back where you started, adrenaline in full force, stomach in your throat, head a-spin. Even at my best, this would not be my choice of fun, so in the state I was in, I was pushed pretty much to my edge. During the ride, I found myself in such a state of blended panic and disbelief that I simply went inward, deeply inward. I let go in a way I rarely do, rarely am able, into full surrender. Such was the moment. It lasted only a minute or so, but it was profound. I realize now that this place of surrender is an option, should I ever choose to return to that space. It is a place of uncanny calm and resolve – a kind of freedom beyond what I am accustomed to.

While I did not intend the race to hold such interesting moments, I certainly am grateful to be living fully enough to have them, all-the-while also enjoying the fun and exhilaration the race itself offered. It was certainly an adventure; probably much like labor, within days the pain and discomforts will fade and an excitement for doing it again will emerge!

24 Feet is Off!

The fun (and insanity) is about to begin!!! 12 stalwart members of Team 24 Feet are about to begin the Spokane to Sandpoint Relay -- taking us roughly 190 miles from the top of Mount Spokane, WA into our very own Sandpoint, ID. It has been pouring rain the last 24 hours, so you can imagine the anticipation we feel!!! But we have slick new shirts, A LOT of good food, 2 huge vans and some fine team spirit to lead us on!

You can track our progress here: http://www.twentyfourfeet.com/

If you want to see details of this journey, check out the S2S site: http://www.spokanetosandpoint.com/

See you on the other side!!!!!

Reunion of Families

We took our gang to Ohio last week to meet members of both the extended Barnes and Cushing families. Seeing Great Grandma GG (92!) was a definite highlight, as were the many wonderful activities that Jim and Duane organized for the family. Henry and Hope had a blast, especially swinging on the big swings, learning about fireflies, and getting to swim in the hotel pool.

For those who want to see GG in action: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brzdLd6E9z8

Save the Trees, Please!

With news from around the world being as troubling as it is, it feels like slight hyperbole to "rage" against what is happening right in our own Sunnyside neighborhood...alas, trees are being removed systematically without any public hearing or community input and it is quite troubling. Here is a brief note sent today to our County Commissioners -- if anyone else wants to weigh in in support of green, here is a link to their office: http://www.co.bonner.id.us/

Good Morning,

I understand from my brief conversation with Commissioner Rich that there will be time on today’s meeting agenda for public sentiment to be shared regarding issues facing our county. While sadly I cannot be there in person due to work obligations, I would like to voice my strong opposition to the devastation which the Sunnyside neighborhood has wrought over the past week. The multitude of trees which have been systematically downed is startling. Where once a beautiful stand of aspen lined the road, bringing shade to walkers and homes to birds and other animals, there is now NOTHING. The barrenness literally brought tears to my eyes last night coming home.

Even more infuriating are the older pines which are situated on the Petersen’s property with large pink circles awaiting their demise. These trees have been on this property since the time the Petersens bought it many years ago. Due to illness and age, the Petersens themselves cannot fight to save these trees, so I am imploring you to STOP action on removing these living beings – they are not only part of the unique nature of our community, they sit in fragile waterways which house many, many species of wildlife.

Commissioners, I ask that you please take a few moments out of your day today and drive to Sunnyside Rd. See for yourselves how barren it looks and how many other trees are marked for removal. Please consider how sacred our habitat is – how vital these trees are not only to the historic beauty of the area, but to the survival of the many birds and animals that use these trees for food and shelter. Just this spring I watched for quite some time a spirited pileated woodpecker playing in the same set of aspen trees which I described above – sadly, this will never again be possible.

I understand the unique challenges you face as Commissioners trying to mediate between the needs of many different constituents. I understand at times you must make very difficult and unpopular decisions. Today, on this matter, I ask that you side with the citizens of our county, with the residents of Sunnyside, with the trees and the animals who live among us.

Thank you very much.

Celebrations a Plenty!

What a fun week of celebration! 41, 1 & 3 never looked so good! The highlights included our birthday trifecta gathering on the 11th, complete with Shannon-style margaritas, awesome friends and lots of play time on the slip-n-slide! Then came watching Hope eat her first cupcake -- huge bites stuffed eagerly into her mouth -- surely she has learned to eat from watching her moms! Added wonders were Henry's first beetle in the Bug Bungalow, the whole gang, including Grandma Linda, in attendance at The Wiggles Live in Spokane and an evening swimming with the kids in their birthday suits down at City Beach.

Live feed of Hope's cupcake inhalation can be found here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EpBIJLtphg

summertime in action

So many birthday updates yet to post...alas, I did get the chance to finally play in video again. Here is our latest, "summertime": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TA1KrS9p7Js

Potty Present

41 years old today...all has started off well.  I awoke to a serenading trio offering up an early morning "Happy Birthday" rendition, then opened a lovely hand-drawn card from my lovely family and a personally signed David Sedaris book.  I went to walk Java and when I returned, I got the BEST birthday present of all -- Henry was jumping with joy waiting for me to see it...he had gone poop in the potty!!!!  A first!!!  This is a day to remember -- and of course, it tells you a lot about the things that get this gal excited now that I'm 40+!

Festive Fourth

We enjoyed a festive national birthday celebration with PG, Deb and Maggie coming for a visit. We indulged in Sandpoint's finest parade with fire engines aplenty for Henry and enough troublesome righty-politics onlookers to make you gag. The evening offered an amazing gathering of more lefty-folks at a friend's BBQ and then fireworks at the beach. Sadly, Henry went quite excited but as soon as the first bang sounded, he hid his head in my shirt for the rest of the coloful, but loud display. The weekend sure had the feel of summer!

Wrestling Fun

As we approach the July birthday trifecta in our household, the kids are already getting into celebration mode...here they wrestle together with their new sleeping bags from Grandpa Buddy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubniKCTaQ08

Thank you, Grandpa Buddy!!!

These bags will come in handy sleeping in the rented tent trailer on our upcoming trip to Yellowstone and Jackon Hole!!!! Anyone want to meet us for some fun????

Movin', Movin'!

Here is our little walker... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1MSuOlIU_Y

Weekend Wonders

Awesome weekend of fun at home and at Priest Lake. Deb and Maggie came for a visit and made some amazing french bread with us...Henry got to paddle in a kayak at Dana Oxford's 43rd birthday...Hope found her "giddy-up" with all of the moving vehicles at the house. Hope is full on walking these days, so the energy in the house has been full tilt. It is great fun to watch her movement unfold. Henry continues to delight in creating new songs to sing and cooking with Momma Di.

Fun Fact

Interesting FUN FACT about my upcoming birthday...

At five minutes and six seconds after 4 AM on the 8th of July this year, the time and date will be 04:05:06 07/08/09 . This will never happen again. Carpe diem!!!

Spoken Word Debut

Here it is in text...how fun it was in action!

1998, they got together like it was fate
That 11 years later here we would stand
United with friends, family – let’s understand
The journey has been well earned
Every year, more growth to make
Learning from successes, freefalls and mistakes
These gals are distinctly special
Their blend of science, art and style
They’ll help you when you think you simply can’t go that very next mile
They’ll challenge when it’s warranted
They’ll hold when it seems right
They’re comfort in this world where things sometimes just don’t feel quite right

The two are intertwined in spirit and in life
But willing to expand despite predicted strife
So that their lives become both rich and true and deepen
More and more
From outside looking in, it’s hard to know what’s all in store
For they travel and they risk, they question and they act
There’s not one here among us who would challenge this known fact
We’ve got a pair here before us who in their living makes this world
A better place to raise our children, shed the anger, let hearts unfurl
They deepen our relations, embrace that which is real
Their honesty and willingness all part of their appeal

Take ‘em one by one, Lara’s art brings a new lens
Through the camera, in her painting, perspective and color blend
So to offer new ways of thinking, expand our minds, expand our hearts
A bodhisattva in the making greater than the sum of her own parts
Science blends with art, a dash erotic, come hold my hand
She’ll join you on that trip you’re taking to the promise land
She captures essence of this life, attends the nuance as well the bold
Her heart so true and real and seen, the core from which love unfolds

Melissa too a complex gal who thrives against all odds
Resilient, spin-your-head brilliant, the ideas she’ll poke and prod
Until she’s found a whole new way to consider the first main point
Her investigative questions will never disappoint
Because it shows you that she cares, that she’s listening beyond your words
Curiosity extending from global politics to birds…
This woman’s mind however sharp is only one of the key parts
Melissa is a woman who moves deeply from her heart
Metered passion more internal though it’ll show itself full blown
She’s got more integrity and empathy than anyone I’ve known

Tonight we honor passages; one of mind and one of age
Lara’s reached her 40’s and Melissa is the sage
Of Oaxacan forest products, environmental anthropology
Let’s put our hands together for Doc Poe and her PhD

Tonight we celebrate this pair equal in their power
To believe in what is possible, take action in this hour
When life feels more challenging than perhaps in times before
When “global economic downturn” threatens to knock right at the door
Here stands the answer to prosperity, of heart and soul and mind
With more of them we’d sure do better advancing humankind

Happy Birthday, Lara, Congratulations, Meliss
This is such a celebration I would never want to miss
A chance to tell you once again how proud I am, how amazed
And how I love you so very much and your brilliant, creative ways!

Kid-Lovin'!

Henry, Hope and Momma Diana survived our weekend alone while Momma Shannon enjoyed some big girl time in Seattle (Happy Birthday, Tammy!!!) Our time was spent mostly outside, playing in the garden, the pool and doing art. It doesn't get much better than this!!!

Amazing Feats for Little Feets

Lesson: Never underestimate the honesty or agility of either of your children!

Last night, the family was having supper and as typically happens, Henry excused himself from the table to go play in the playroom. Hope soon followed, as she always likes to keep a close eye on her big brother. Shannon and I took advantage of a little mom time telling work stories and gossiping a bit. Here is the dialogue that next transpired:

Henry, calling from the playroom: "Mom, Hope is standing up!" (a regular occasion these days!)

Diana: "That's great!"

Henry: "Hope is standing up, come see!"

Diana: "No, Hen, Momma Shannon and I are finishing our dinner."

Henry: "But come see, Di! Hope is standing!"

Diana: "Hen, when we finish our conversation, we will come."

Henry: "Come now!"

Diana: "OK, Hen, but after I see her, I am coming back to finish my dinner."

And here is where we found Hope...indeed, STANDING ON THE PIANO!!!

To hear the next Elton John/Tori Amos prodigy, see here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjaWlSatu_A

Wonderful Grandma Moments